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Let them be kids; a look into child beauty pageants

Writer's picture: Khadija NasirKhadija Nasir

TW: mention of eating disorders


We’ve all heard of famous beauty pageants like Miss World, Miss Asia, Miss Universe, etc. They are competitions of beauty and confidence that focus mainly, if not only, on their contestants’ physical traits. While the entire concept of competing to see who is the most beautiful among a group of women seems problematic enough, it becomes so much worse we take into consideration the existence of child beauty pageants that have emerged as a part of this industry.


Child beauty pageants are typically set up as competitions between young children, most of which are young girls. These children compete in order to win titles such as “Miss (of something)” emulating the layout of the adult beauty pageants. Children in these competitions usually range from the ages 16 and under, with children as young as 13 months old being able to participate.


These young girls enter into these competitions under their parent or guardians name and typically center around things such as talent, stage presence, confidence, and most of all their physical appearance. These girls are made to practice and perform intricate stage routines while being caked in makeup and made to wear costumes and accessories that one would typically associate with being the attire of an adult.


These pageants have always been a controversial issue considering how these young girls are expected to present themselves. While most parents of these children support the argument that these competitions teach children traits such as public speaking, confidence, and poise. These pageants can also sometimes lead to monetary rewards and possible scholarships to fund their education. But there are several concerns against as well, such as how these competitions place immense pressure on very young children. Having to constantly practice and rehearse stage routines, these children are often left with very little time to enjoy themselves as kids. The pressure to “keep up” with a certain kind of appearance can also have very negative side effects on their self-esteem and very often lead to body image issues at young ages.



The following is a clip from the TLC show “Toddlers and Tiaras,” Where you can see how these parents speak to their children and how these words manifest into actual insecurities.





In terms of their appearance, these young girls are expected to keep up with the perfect “Barbie doll” look, which while being highly unachievable has become the standard.





These competitions also oversexualize children with the outfits they are usually put into

and the activities they are expected to perform.

These two factors make the

children seem more “adult” in a sense which makes one question the motivation of those judging them.


Here’s an example of the type of skits these girls have to perform in order to “stand out.”


It is possible that girls who part take in these competitions are more likely to suffer from eating disorders such as bulimia and anorexia due to the heavy emphasis put on maintaining their bodies. Through the introduction of unachievable beauty standards at such a small age and reinforcement of the idea that they will be rewarded if they look “beautiful”, these girls create harmful associations with their bodies and how their looks get them validation.


These associations end up reinstating stereotypes of women being sexual objects and with these girls having to make alterations to their looks in order to appease to a panel of judges, reinforces the idea that they need to alter their appearances in order to be accepted.



With more people now paying attention to these competitions its become more apparent how these events have made children vulnerable to issues such as grooming under dangerous judges and coaches.






With the harms far outweighing the benefits in this case one wonders why the parents do this to their children in the first place, with possible motivations such as using their children to get prize money and of mothers living vicariously through their children’s success, the child’s interest is not always considered.



With France banning beauty pageants for all minors under the age of 16, one wonders when the rest of the world is going to step up and do the same.

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Alina Tahir
21 jun 2023

Adding onto this I think the concept of beauty pageants heavily reinforces the idea that a child's worth lies primarily in their physical appearance, rather than their intelligence, talents, or character. And this kind of objectification can lead to children internalising the belief that their value is solely based on their looks. Also, with the pictures you included in the post its evident how these pageants involve young children dressing and behaving in ways that mimic adult beauty standards. i think this also leads to the premature sexualization of children, as they are encouraged to wear revealing clothing, heavy makeup, and perform suggestive dance routines. Such early exposure can have long-lasting negative impacts on a child's self-image and development.

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Khadija Nasir
Khadija Nasir
22 jun 2023
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You've reiterated some critical points! I feel the way young girls are asked to dress in these events is nothing more than predatory and pedophilic behavior on the part of the judges, whom I must mention are males, most of the time. There is no justification for making a little girl dress in provocative clothes when the child does not understand the repercussions it could have on their mental health and safety. It perpetuates the idea to young girls that they need to dress and look a certain way for people to like them.

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25020161
21 jun 2023

When one is taught to act in a certain manner, it limits their voice and self expression, traits feel as if they are artificially induced in a child. When you put so much pressure on a kid to compete with others over how you look, it likely brews insecurities in a child from a young age, one can feel not good enough, not worthy enough, it is very similar to people comparing themselves to models, it makes you think that you need to be a certain type of way to win, in this case, always try to beautify yourself in order to compete and so they also present themselves as all dolled up trying to conform to stereotypical "barbie" beauty…

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Khadija Nasir
Khadija Nasir
22 jun 2023
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Thank you for the comment! And I agree with your thoughts. Peagents shows I have recently begun to include show talents as part of their judging criteria; this was done to show people against them that they are judging more than just appearance. But these portions are nothing more than repeated enforcement of the same gender roles. Girls are encouraged to partake in "Girly" talents like cheerleading, ribbon dancing, and instrument playing. And yes, such a setup is just a setup to breed insecurities, with their mothers constantly telling the girls they need to "fix" something about how they look; of course, these girls will begin to embody these thoughts about themselves.

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24020337
19 jun 2023

Agreed, its absolutely disgusting to see these little girls parading around with all that makeup and those outfits, especially when they are barely able to walk. Even in Dance Moms, the girls are dancing sure, but theyre still kids under all that makeup and all that pressure cannot be good for them, just look at Kenzie Ziegler, hidden in the shadow of her sister Maddie, almost compressed by all that pressure.

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Khadija Nasir
Khadija Nasir
22 jun 2023
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Dance Moms is another great example of such harmful behavior against young girls. The girls in that show are made to fight against each other constantly, with their mothers constantly reminding them that all the other girls are just their competition. This reinforces the same stereotype of pitting girls against each other!

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Zainab Mushtaq
18 jun 2023

These beauty pageants reinforce very narrow and Eurocentric beauty standards for girls of young ages and different ethnicities which reduces the scope of what is perceived as beautiful. Parents play a huge role in the preparation for the pageant and since these pageants are only for girls, the parents are responsible for reinforcing traditional gender roles in their child which can reduce the child's choices and self-expression.

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Khadija Nasir
Khadija Nasir
22 jun 2023
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Yes, I agree! In one episode, I found that the mother allowed her sons to go play outside while her daughter had to stay inside and practice for her peagent performance. This was such a painful representation of those same toxic stereotypes of how girls have to stay inside and look pretty. And regarding your point about Eurocentric stereotypes, I greatly agree. White girls are made to tan their skin, and tan girls are made to bleach their skin at such young ages. All in an attempt to recreate the same looks as the adult women in events like Miss Universe. This reinforces to children that there is only one type of beauty that is accepted. It is how their…

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Since these kids are minors, it is very likely that they had full agency over their decision to compete in beauty pageants. Just by default of being so young, it's unlikely that these children know the full repercussions of growing up in the limelight and partaking in competitions that are mostly centered around achieving a pre-set standard of beauty. Plus, it seems to be indicative of a larger issue surrounding women being sexualised disproportionately from a very young age. You'd seldom see little boys participating in pageants like this.

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Khadija Nasir
Khadija Nasir
22 jun 2023
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I completely agree! If you begin to watch the show, you will notice how stressed out and uncomfortable these children are when they are made to practice and have to get alterations in their appearances. With their emotionally distressed responses being labeled as "tantrums," their parents are able to laugh them off, and so are the conductors of such events. With them putting their children in these events so young, there is no way a 1-4-year-old would understand the dangers of such an industry, the harm to their health, and how they are being exploited.


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